Been sexually Dominant all my adult life. I was a loving Dominant husband for years and loved dd. I'd say I'm a considerate loving Dom, very attentive to My sub's goals and needs, but I do love the thud and sting of a flogger or a cane on reddening skin, shudders from caresses, hips swaying as my sub dances cuffed to the Cross. I immersed Myself into the local fet community about 20 years ago, and learned a lot, and was a respected member and occasional Dungeon Master.