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I am a 60 yo MWM, Bi, living in Mission Viejo. I am Bi, married and have a fantasy of beeing controlled and trained to serve a Dominate Master, Mistress, or Couple. l really enjoy forced feminization and BDSM. I want to learn and be forced to serve and service men, women, couples and groups, and to be used and abused by them.

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I preferBottom
Been with a crossdresserYes
Crossdressing Experiencenew to this
Looking for someone passable?Does not matter


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageIrish
BuildA few extra pounds
Height180 cm
Best featureButt
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusMarried
Housing SituationAll is calm
Has a carYes

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Great skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchDominant man or woman who knows what they want and how to get it.
Our first dateGetting to know each other and what our desires, fantasies and fetishes are, then you take control and show me how to serve and service you and your friends.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Kidnapping, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Spanking, Suspension, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasWhen I was much younger, I met this hot sexy woman at an adult book store. She took me over to her house, and she and her husband tied me up and made me service both of them. The then made me service a group of friends.


FetishesCrossdressing, Cuckolding, Exhibitionism, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Lactation, Medical / Enema, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, but I want to try it
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Strap-ons
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":blood and scat

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI want to be kidnapped, dressed in lingerie, tied, and led, by my mistress, into a group sex party, with men, women, and couples, where they are told that I am her worthless sex slave and they are to use me in any way the wish. That I am to be left used and abused, exhausted, and filled and covered in cum
Fantasy locationTrain, At a park, Hotel/motel, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Dressing room, On the beach, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom
Fantasy sex partner:A dominant man, woman, or couple who wants a sex slave to use, abuse and share with friends, family, or strangers.

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I enjoy the occasional beating
I'm seeking:Professional
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Rubber
Ideal session:To be dressed in feminine clothes with a rubber mask and made to service my Mistress and her friends in any way she desires.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:To be dressed, controlled, used, and abused by my Mistress and a group of very Dominant women They also have sex slaves that they let use and abuse me. I am dressed like a rubber doll and suspend in a swing. I am fucked in my mouth and my ass while cum is being squirted all over me.